Thursday 24 September 2015

鈍 筆: A Talk About Fatherhood (A Personal Journey) Part 1 /// 兼谈父(个人的旅程)第1部分

BaldPen was in a talk recently in a restaurant on 8 August 2015. During dinner, he was asked to talk about his experience of being a father.

In this speech to hundred people in the audience, BaldPen said that fatherhood is not easy,especially in bringing up children from birth. Have to take care of new born baby for 24 hours in a day. From the eating to pooping  and illness. More so, BaldPen reminiscences of past times with lack of modern medicine and good facilities. Parents , like him, at that time depended on traditional means to help the children to get well again. It is a very worrying time to take care of sick children, especially, when he or she is your own flesh and blood.

The worrying and taking care does not end after childhood. Fathers must work hard and harder to look for more money when children need many types of expenses for schooling and other necessities like school uniforms, food, lodging, stationery, workbook and others. In addition, tuition classess now is a must with high cost as well. On top of that, parents, even fathers and mothers are also drivers to ferry children to different destinations for study and other learning activities. Needless to say, all the hard work also includes making sure that grades are good and get better over time. If not... you know what needs to be done!

Time and tide wait for no man. In a twinkle of an eye,children grow to be young adults to further studies in tertiary education. They fly off from nest or home. Fathers become more worry about children hen they grow up, either they are studying abroad or in the home country. This is when scholarships can help with financial burden. Baldpen said he knows of fathers and mothers who have to finance their children's education through different means. He knows of some that mortgage or sell of property to ensure children get their degree. So, in a way, one degree scroll is now a house price.

If children are good, they graduate to be good citizens. When they graduate, they have to find work. Many need some time to find work, and fathers will worry if they can find good work to pay for life expenses. Some more, if the children need to pay back the study loan and others.

Then, the time for children's marriage .This is the part where BaldPen told about his own experience in becoming a father with more specific details....Stay tune a BaldWin tells about during that dinner.

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 鈍 筆是在最近的谈话在8月8日2015年一家餐厅用餐时,有人问他谈论他做父亲的经验。

在本次演讲上百人次的观众, 鈍 筆说,父亲是不容易的,尤其是在抚养子女从出生。要照顾新出生的婴儿24小时一天。从饮食到拉的和疾病。更何况,过去的时代与缺乏现代医学和良好的设施 鈍 筆回忆。父母,和他一样,在依靠传统的手段是时间帮助孩子们获得好了。这是一个非常令人担忧的时间来生病的孩子的照顾,尤其是,当他或她是你的亲骨肉。

童年后的担忧和照顾并没有结束。父亲必须努力工作,更努力寻求更多的钱,当孩子需要多种类型的开支教育和其他必需品一样的校服,食,宿,文具,工作簿和其他人。此外,学费类新现在是高成本必须为好。最重要的是,家长,甚至是父亲和母亲也是司机运送孩子的学习和其他学习活动不同的目的地。不用说,所有的辛勤工作还包括确保成绩不错,并得到随着时间的推移更好。如果不是......你知道什么需要做的事情!

岁月不待人。在眼睛的闪烁,孩子的成长是年轻人在高等教育继续深造。他们飞了出去,从窝或家庭。成为父亲对孩子母鸡长大后更省心,他们要么在国外留学或在本国。这时候的奖学金能帮助经济负担。  鈍 筆说,他知道谁拥有子女的教育,通过各种手段融资的父亲和母亲。他知道一些,抵押贷款或财产出售,以确保儿童得到他们的学位。因此,在某种程度上,一度滚动​​现在一套房子的价格。

如果孩子是好的,他们毕业后成为好公民。当他们毕业时,他们必须找到工作。许多需要一定的时间找工作,和父亲会担心,如果他们能找到好的工作来支付生活费用。多一些,如果孩子需要偿还贷学金等。

然后,时间为孩子的婚姻。这就是 鈍 筆讲述了成为有更具体的细节父亲他自己的经验....保持调谐鲍德温讲述了在晚餐期间的部分。

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